Marcus Aurelius described his morning practice in Meditations, where he prepared himself for difficult people and situations before leaving his room.
How to Practice
Sit quietly for a moment before getting out of bed. Take three slow breaths.
Stillness creates a calm foundation before the day begins.
Remind yourself of what is and is not within your control today.
This core Stoic distinction reduces anxiety and sharpens focus.
Anticipate the challenges you may face -- difficult people, setbacks, frustrations.
Mental rehearsal makes challenges feel less surprising and overwhelming.
Set an intention for how you want to show up today -- patient, kind, focused.
An intention anchors your behavior to your values, not reactions.
Express gratitude for one thing -- your health, a relationship, a new day.
Gratitude shifts your mindset from scarcity to appreciation.