What the Great Thinkers Say
Marcus Aurelius
Marcus Aurelius wrote that we often suffer more from anticipation than experience. He practiced confining his attention to the present moment and the task at hand.
Never let the future disturb you — you will meet it with the same reason you use now.
Seneca
Seneca observed that we suffer more in imagination than reality. He recommended examining our worst fears closely — often they shrink when looked at directly.
We suffer more often in imagination than in reality — most fears never come true.
Buddha
The Buddha taught that anxiety arises from clinging to outcomes. Through mindfulness, we can observe anxious thoughts without believing every one of them.
Do not dwell in the past or dream of the future — concentrate on the present moment.
Epictetus
Epictetus taught a radical simplification: divide everything into what you can control and what you cannot. Most anxiety dissolves when you stop trying to control the uncontrollable.
Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens.